If you spend much time on social media, you are probably aware of the Ten Year Aging Challenge, where you post a photo of yourself ten years ago and a second recent photo of yourself.
Well, we now have a winner.
BOOK OF THE WEEK
A Short Guide to a Long Life
By David B Agus, MD
This book may be a bit dated, having come out in 2014. And I certainly don’t agree with everything in this book, but it does give you a lot of things to think about and it is easy to read.
MOVIE OF THE WEEK
Season 2 of Victoria is now playing on PBS at 9 p.m. EST on Sundays.
Victoria Season 3
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
Don’t Go Breaking My Heart
By Elton John & Kiki Dee
ART OF THE WEEK
Clothing As Art
Clothing has always been a form of art and one really needs to dress for the occasion. For instance here is a person properly dressed for using a snow thrower.
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
Alley Oop
Alley Oop, was a sturdy citizen in the prehistoric kingdom of Moo. He rode his pet dinosaur Dinny, carried a stone war hammer, and wore only a fur loincloth. He would rather fight dinosaurs in the jungle than deal with his fellow countrymen in Moo’s capital and sole cave-town. (Source: Wikipedia)
However, I think the following will give you a far better idea of this extraordinary individual.
Alley Oop
By The Hollywood Argyles
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
PHYSICAL TRAITS
You are going to pay a high price for not finding time to exercise.
CHARACTER TRAITS
If this isn’t true, it should be.
SOCIAL TRAITS
LEARNING TRAITS
If you are going to be interviewing, make sure you test your answers to common interview questions, such as “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”
MISCELLANEOUS
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
Which one of these two is the biggest bozo?
Jeff Bezos 77.78% (14 votes)
Bozo the Clown 22.22% (4 votes)
Total Votes: 18
Have you ever attended a classical concern?
Yes 84.21% (16 votes)
No 15.79% (3 votes)
Total Votes: 19
Have you ever seen Chuck Berry perform live?
No 87.5% (14 votes)
Yes 12.5% (2 votes)
Total Votes: 16
What is your overall opinion of the majority of Facebook posts?
It is a mixed bag of good and bad posts 73.33% (11 votes)
I don’t like the majority of posts I see 26.67% (4 votes)
I like the majority of posts I see 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 15
Question for Males Only: Are you attracted to strong independent women?
Yes 66.67% (6 votes)
No 33.33% (3 votes)
Total Votes: 9
Question for Women Only: Do you think males are attracted to strong independent women?
No 63.64% (7 votes)
Yes 36.36% (4 votes)
Total Votes: 11
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.
Jeff Bezos and his wife, MacKenzie, are getting a divorce after 25 years of marriage, according to a joint statement put out Wednesday on the Amazon CEO’s Twitter account.
Bezos, 54, and MacKenzie, 48, met and got married while working at D.E. Shaw, a New York-based hedge fund, in the early 90s. Shortly after, they packed up and moved across the country to Seattle, where Bezos launched Amazon.
Bezos is now the world’s richest person, with an estimated net worth of $137 billion, according to the Bloomberg Billionaires Index. That means this divorce could end up being very costly.
MacKenzie is an author of multiple novels, including Traps and The Testing of Luther Albright.
Yahoo Finance
Reportedly, Jeff Bezos has been officially carrying on a relationship with married Lauren Sanchez for some time. Readers may remember Lauren Sanchez from “So You Think You Can Dance?” She was a judge and host on the show.
The timing of the hook up coincides with Bezos’ initial separation from his wife MacKenzie. Jeff and MacKenzie were friends with Lauren and her husband, talent agent Patrick Whitesell. Both Lauren and Jeff officially separated from their spouses around the same time.
Who is the Biggest Bozo
Jeff Bezos
Bozo The Clown
BOOK OF THE WEEK
For most of us, it is a little too cold for gardening, but perfect weather for a library.
MOVIE (PLAY) OF THE WEEK
I saw this play yesterday and I thought it was one of the most entertaining plays I have seen and I have seen a lot of play. Oh, and I don’t care for golf. Golf is the backdrop of this play, but the play isn’t about golf in my mind.
A tribute from Ken Ludwig to the great English farces of the 1930s and 1940s, A Fox On the Fairway takes audiences on a hilarious romp, which pulls the rug out from underneath the stuffy denizens of a private country club. Filled with mistaken identities, slamming doors, and over-the-top romantic shenanigans, it’s a charmingly madcap adventure about love, life, and man’s eternal love affair with…golf.
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
Detroit Symphony Orchestra
The William Davidson Neighborhood Concert Series
I’ve attended a number of symphony concerts over the years and I thought this one was one of the best. I urge all of you to at least experience a classical concert once in your life.
And as much as I was enjoying the concert, I simply could not get this out of my mind.
ART OF THE WEEK
The Great Wall of China
The Great Wall in 1907
The Great Wall of China is a series of fortifications made of stone, brick, tamped earth, wood, and other materials, generally built along an east-to-west line across the historical northern borders of China to protect the Chinese states and empires against the raids and invasions of the various nomadic groups of the Eurasian Steppe with an eye to expansion.
Several walls were being built as early as the 7th century BC; these, later joined together and made bigger and stronger, are collectively referred to as the Great Wall. The Great Wall has been rebuilt, maintained, and enhanced over various dynasties; the majority of the existing wall is from the Ming Dynasty (1368–1644).
Apart from defense, other purposes of the Great Wall have included border controls, allowing the imposition of duties on goods transported along the Silk Road, regulation or encouragement of trade and the control of immigration and emigration. Furthermore, the defensive characteristics of the Great Wall were enhanced by the construction of watch towers, troop barracks, garrison stations, signaling capabilities through the means of smoke or fire, and the fact that the path of the Great Wall also served as a transportation corridor.
Today, the Great Wall is generally recognized as one of the most impressive architectural feats in history. (Source: Wikipedia)
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
I was fortunate to see Chuck Berry perform in person.
Chuck Berry
Chuck Berry in 1957
Charles Edward Anderson Berry (October 18, 1926 – March 18, 2017) was an American singer, songwriter, and one of the pioneers of rock and roll music. With songs such as “Maybellene” (1955), “Roll Over Beethoven” (1956), “Rock and Roll Music” (1957) and “Johnny B. Goode” (1958), Berry refined and developed rhythm and blues into the major elements that made rock and roll distinctive. Writing lyrics that focused on teen life and consumerism, and developing a music style that included guitar solos and showmanship, Berry was a major influence on subsequent rock music.
Berry was among the first musicians to be inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame on its opening in 1986; he was cited for having “laid the groundwork for not only a rock and roll sound but a rock and roll stance.”Berry is included in several of Rolling Stone magazine’s “greatest of all time” lists; he was ranked fifth on its 2004 and 2011 list of the 100 Greatest Artists of All Time.The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame’s 500 Songs That Shaped Rock and Roll includes three of Berry’s: “Johnny B. Goode”, “Maybellene”, and “Rock and Roll Music”.
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
PHYSICAL TRAITS
Think Powerlifting is just for huge, young males, well you are mistaken I know a number of world champion powerlifters in their 70s, both males and females. As you get older, you don’t have to become feeble.
CHARACTER TRAITS
SOCIAL TRAITS
I wish people would put some thought into the posts they share, such as is it really true, is it kind and respectful, etc.
LEARNING TRAITS
Many of you from an early time when air for your tires was provided free at every gas station have perhaps wondered why we now have to pay for air. I hope this will answer your question.
MISCELLANEOUS
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
Have you ever attended a Captain & Tennille concert?
No 92.86% (13 votes)
Yes 7.14% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Regarding the book, “Fezziwig: A Life”
The book seems interesting and I would like to read it 64.29% (9 votes)
I’m not interested in reading the book 35.71% (5 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Regarding the movie “Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows”
I haven’t seen it, but I am interested in seeing it 40% (6 votes)
I’ve seen it and liked it 33.33% (5 votes)
I haven’t seen it and I am not interested in seeing it 26.67% (4 votes)
I’ve seen it and didn’t like it 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 15
Do you typically get 7 to 8 hours sleep a night?
Yes 53.33% (8 votes)
No, I get less 40% (6 votes)
No, I get more 6.67% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 15
Do you have too much stuff?
Yes 88.24% (15 votes)
No 11.76% (2 votes)
Total Votes: 17
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.
Daryl Dragon, one half of popular ’70s duo The Captain & Tennille, died, according to his publicist Harlan Boll. He was 76.
“He was a brilliant musician with many friends who loved him greatly,” Toni Tennille said in a statement. “I was at my most creative in my life when I was with him.” Tennille was at Dragon’s side when he passed away, Boll said.
Dragon, a classically trained pianist, was most at home behind the keyboard. One of his early gigs was as a backup musician for the Beach Boys in the mid-’60s.
Dragon and Tennille met in 1971 when she hired him to play piano for a musical called “Mother Earth.” They married in 1975, a year after they signed a deal with A&M Records.
Dragon and Tennille separated in 2013 and finalized their divorce in 2014. They remained close friends.
CNN’s Cheri Mossburg contributed to this report.
BOOK OF THE WEEK
I could not put this book down, once I started reading it. I did find it difficult to obtain and eventually had to reach out to the author, Danny Kuhn, for a copy.
In the midst of Britain’s Industrial Revolution, one of Charles Dickens’ most beloved characters is living a full life, adventurous and lusty, but touched by scandal.
Born in rural Lincolnshire in 1721, as a boy, William Fezziwig is displaced from his impoverished home through treachery and left alone in the world. Against the odds, Fezziwig rises to a prominent position in 18th century London when opportunities are presented by a respectable gentleman smuggler who sees promise in the waif.
Prominence brings peril and Fezziwig must brave the War of Jenkins’ Ear in order to pursue trade in Barbados and colonial Charleston, South Carolina. In the Americas there are threats on many fronts, from Spanish warships to his conflicted feelings toward the beguiling Eliza Lucas, heiress to one of the largest plantations in the Carolinas.
Quixotic American Benjamin Franklin and a bevy of eccentric characters destined to become some of history’s most influential figures upend Fezziwig’s desire for a quieter life. Fezziwig finds himself in the position of mentor to his famous friend, as well as a certain ambitious young apprentice in need of lessons on life…and love. Social, political, intellectual, and economic revolution is in the air, and an old mystery resurfaces that could change the course of Fezziwig’s and Franklin’s careers. (Source: Amazon)
MOVIE OF THE WEEK
A month ago I asked readers who they thought was the best Sherlock Holmes and Robert Downey Jr. came in second behind Jermey Brett, so I thought I should check out this film and I found it was pretty good. Still, Robert Downey Jr. is no Jermey Brett when it comes to portraying Sherlock Holmes.
Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows (2011)
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
Captain Hollywood Project – More and More
ART OF THE WEEK
Some of the malls had very nice Christmas displays
This is Somerset Mall in Troy, MI
Marshall Fields Walnut Room (Now Macy’s) in Chicago
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
King Henry VIII of England
I would be surprised if any of you have not heard of King Henry VIII of England. However, there are probably some misconceptions about him and I will try to clear them up with these two versions.
The first version is a song that is believed to be actually written by King Henry the VIII.
This second version, prepared by the noted team of historian scholars, Herman and the Hermits; is probably the more recognized version of the life of Henry the VIII.
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
PHYSICAL TRAITS
Adequate sleep is so important.
It is recommended adults get 7 to 8 hours a night
CHARACTER TRAITS
SOCIAL TRAITS
LEARNING TRAITS
MISCELLANEOUS
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
Are you going to make 2019 a great year?
Yes 100% (18 votes)
No 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 18
Regarding the book “Stay Interesting”
I have not read it and I am not interested in reading it 75% (12 votes)
I have not read it, but would like to read it 18.75% (3 votes)
I’ve read it and liked it 6.25% (1 votes)
I’ve read it and didn’t like it 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 16
Regarding the movie “New Year’s Eve”
I have not seen it and I am not interested in seeing it 66.67% (10 votes)
I’ve seen it and I liked it 26.67% (4 votes)
I have not seen it, but would like to see it. 6.66% (1 votes)
I’ve seen it and I didn’t like it 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 15
One of the most common New Years Resolutions is to lose weight.
I plan to lose weight in 2019 50% (8 votes)
I plan to stay at the same weight in 2019 50% (8 votes)
I will probably gain weight in 2019 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 16
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.
I thought it was an interesting and fun read; but I could not help wishing it was more about The Most Interesting Man in the World and less about Jonathan Goldsmith.
A memoir told through a series of adventures and the lessons he’s learned and wants to pass on, Stay Interesting is a truly daring and bold tale, and a manifesto about taking chances, not giving up, making courageous choices, and living a truly adventurous, and always interesting life. (Source: Amazon)
MOVIE OF THE WEEK
I thought this movie was very appropriate for this week, plus it is clever and entertaining.
New Year’s Eve (2011)
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
I’ve checked out a number of songs for starting out the new year and for me, I can’t find one better than this to start our 2019. It has stood the test of time.
1999
By Prince
ART OF THE WEEK
I think nature is one of the best artists.
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
This isn’t the first time that I have made Father Time the extraordinary person of the week, but I thought why not do it again.
Father Time
Father Time is usually depicted as an elderly bearded man […], dressed in a robe and carrying a scythe and an hourglass or other timekeeping device (which represents time’s constant one-way movement).
Around New Year’s Eve, the media uses Father Time as the personification of the previous year (or “the Old Year”) who typically “hands over” the duties of time to the equally allegorical Baby New Year (or “the New Year”) or who otherwise characterizes the preceding year.
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
PHYSICAL TRAITS
CHARACTER TRAITS
SOCIAL TRAITS
The beginning of the year is a good time for reflection.
LEARNING TRAITS
Just in case you didn’t already know this.
MISCELLANEOUS
When it is all said and done, the only thing that matters is what you have done, not what your ancestors have done.
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
In 2018, did you become a better person?
Yes 47.37% (9 votes)
A little better 36.84% (7 votes)
No, but I tried 15.79% (3 votes)
No 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 19
Are you a reader of books?
Yes 93.75% (15 votes)
No 6.25% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 16
Regarding the movie “Scrooged”
I’ve seen it and liked it. 50% (7 votes)
I haven’t seen it, but I want to see it. 35.71% (5 votes)
I haven’t seen it and I am not interested in seeing it. 14.29% (2 votes)
I’ve seen it and didn’t like it. 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Regarding the Winter Wonderfest at Navy Pier
I’ve never been, but I want to go there. 61.54% (8 votes)
I’ve never been and don’t wish to go there. 23.08% (3 votes)
I’ve been there and liked it. 15.38% (2 votes)
I’ve been there and didn’t like it. 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 13
Is one of your New Year’s Resolutions to live a healthier lifestyle?
Yes 71.43% (10 votes)
No 28.57% (4 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Which would you rather receive from a dear friend or relative?
Their presence 93.33% (14 votes)
A present 6.67% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 15
Do you think the “Blind Man” description of the USA does the country justice.
No 80% (8 votes)
Yes 20% (2 votes)
Total Votes: 10
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.
Another year is coming to a close and I always like to ask myself this question. Unfortunately, I don’t always like the answer, but I did try.
BOOK OF THE WEEK
“Reading is your first line of defense against an empty head. … like an athlete in training, the more you read, the more mentally fit you feel.”
“I read for growth, firmly believing that what you are today and what you will be in five years depends on two things: the people you meet and the books you read.”
Source: Twyla Tharp
MOVIE OF THE WEEK
I have been watching updated versions of A Christmas Carol and I can’t recommend any of them; other than, Bill Murray’s Scrooged. I believe it is still the best updated version of A Christmas Carol.
Scrooged (1988)
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
The Christmas season in always a bit stressful.
This song has a great message.
Merry Christmas (I Don’t Want To Fight Tonight)
By The Ramones
ART OF THE WEEK
I didn’t visit Winter Wonderfest at Navy Pier in Chicago this year, but I have been there many years in the past and it has something for everyone in the family.
Winter Wonderfest at Navy Pier, Chicago
There are a number of cool rides for kids
There is the huge Christmas Tree
And Christmas displays from all over the world, here are just a few.
Ireland
France
Germany
Poland
Russia
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
Ebenezer Scrooge
George C. Scott as Ebenezer Scrooge
The extraordinary person of the week is Ebenezer Scrooge. Unfortunately, his last name has come into the English language as a byword for miserliness.
I say unfortunately because Ebenezer Scrooge is proof that regardless of how old a person is and how mean-spirited that person may be, redemption is still possible.
Although his name today is a byword for miserliness, in his time it was always said of him that, “he knew how to keep Christmas well if any man alive possessed the knowledge.”
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
PHYSICAL TRAITS
Exercise is considered by many medical scientists to be the magic bullet for good health. This time of the year, many people make New Years Resolutions to get healthy by exercising, eating healthy foods, getting enough sleep and trying to reduce stress in their lives.
According to James P. Owen, author of Just Move, 75% of people who make New Year’s Resolutions will stick to them no longer than one week.
CHARACTER TRAITS
I know this is a stressful time of the year and we may have a tendency to want to bark at other drivers, but instead we should still try to be considerate and understanding to other drivers.
SOCIAL TRAITS
This time of the year many people are spending more than they can really afford on presents or stressing themselves out with gift buying.
Perhaps, you should consider giving more of your “presence” and less “presents”. Your time is worth more than any gift you could give.
LEARNING TRAITS
Visit the USA
The following is the best description I can come up with for describing what it is like to visit the USA.
A group of blind men heard that a strange animal, called an elephant, had been brought to the town, but none of them were aware of its shape and form. Out of curiosity, they said: “We must inspect and know it by touch”. So, they sought it out, and when they found it they groped about it.
In the case of the first person, whose hand landed on the trunk, said “This being is like a thick snake”.
For another one whose hand reached its ear, it seemed like a kind of fan.
As for another person, whose hand was upon its leg, said, the elephant is a pillar like a tree-trunk.
The blind man who placed his hand upon its side said, “elephant is a wall”.
Another who felt its tail, described it as a rope.
The last felt its tusk, stating the elephant is that which is hard, smooth and like a spear.
MISCELLANEOUS
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
Do you feel it is incorrect to publicly say “Merry Christmas” or describe events as “Christmas” parade, party etc.?
No 86.96% (20 votes)
Yes 13.04% (3 votes)
Total Votes: 23
How much do you know about Russia?
Something of its history 70.59% (12 votes)
Nothing other than what I hear from the USA Media 23.53% (4 votes)
Considerable knowledge of Russia 5.88% (1 votes)
I’ve visited Russia 0% (0 votes)
I have considerable knowledge of Russia and I have visited Russia 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 17
What do you think of the “Baby It’s Cold Outside” controversy?
It is absolutely ridiculous 93.75% (15 votes)
It is a legitimate concern 6.25% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 16
How many birthdays have you had?
71 to 80 42.86% (6 votes)
51 to 60 28.57% (4 votes)
41 to 50 14.29% (2 votes)
31 to 40 7.14% (1 votes)
More than 80 7.14% (1 votes)
20 or less 0% (0 votes)
21 to 30 0% (0 votes)
61 to 70 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Do you make New Year’s Resolutions or set goals for the new year?
No 53.33% (8 votes)
Yes 46.67% (7 votes)
Total Votes: 15
What is your opinion of “picky” eaters?
Generally negative 71.43% (10 votes)
Generally positive 28.57% (4 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Do you consider yourself a picky eater?
Yes 53.33% (8 votes)
No 46.67% (7 votes)
Total Votes: 15
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.
I’ve been around for over 70 years and I recall the word “Christmas” being used to describe parties, sales, and a host of other events around this time of the year.
I can’t help observing that I see the word “Christmas” used far less frequently today in any sort of public announcement.
It seems to me like the word “Christmas” has fallen victim to political correctness.
I don’t always say “Merry Christmas” and especially to people I know are Jewish or Muslim or of some other faith, but when I do say Merry Christmas
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
When considering a purchasing a book, what initially attracts you to a book?
Author of the book 50% (10 votes)
Title of the book 25% (5 votes)
Cover of the book 25% (5 votes)
Total Votes: 20
When actually purchasing a book, what factor has the greatest influence on your decision?
Subject matter 65% (13 votes)
Cost of the book 25% (5 votes)
How easy it is to read the book 10% (2 votes)
Total Votes: 20
Which is your favorite version of “A Christmas Carol”?
A Christmas Carol (1984) with George C. Scott 31.25% (5 votes)
A Christmas Carol (1938) with Reginald Owen 18.75% (3 votes)
Other versions 18.75% (3 votes)
A Christmas Carol (1951) with Alastair Sim 12.5% (2 votes)
A Christmas Carol (1999) with Patrick Stewart 12.5% (2 votes)
Scrooged (1988) with Bill Murray 6.25% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 16
Do you find the song itself, “Baby It’s Co ld Outside”, offensive?
The song itself is fine 94.74% (18 votes)
Its offensive 5.26% (1 votes)
It is offensive and should be banned for the airwaves 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 19
Of the two versions of the painting, “The Creation of Adam”, which to you prefer?
The first, also known at the finger 80% (12 votes)
The second, the one Bill remembers 20% (3 votes)
Total Votes: 15
Have you waited in a restaurant bathroom, that has a sign saying “Employees must wash hands.” and no one has come in to wash your hands.
No, because most restaurants can’t get dependable help 41.18% (7 votes)
Yes, the employees never show up 35.29% (6 votes)
I’ve always had the employees come in and wash my hands for me. 23.53% (4 votes)
Total Votes: 17
Do you plan to start some sort of exercise program for 2019?
No, I will just continue with my current exercise program 57.89% (11 votes)
No 21.05% (4 votes)
Yes 21.05% (4 votes)
Total Votes: 19
Are you letting something stand between you and your dreams?
No 64.71% (11 votes)
Yes 35.29% (6 votes)
Total Votes: 17
Are you neglecting individual family members, good friends or a loyal pet?
No 66.67% (12 votes)
Yes 33.33% (6 votes)
Total Votes: 18
BOOK OF THE WEEK
I don’t believe this is a fair portrait of Russia, but that seems fairly typical of the books you find on today’s Russia in America bookstores. I read it anyway, because I wanted to learn more about Russia.
I’ve met a few Russians over the years and I found them to be excellent people and when I was at the WPC World Championships in Portugal back in 2015, other than Team USA, the Russian were my biggest fans.
MOVIE OF THE WEEK
This particular version of A Christmas Carol didn’t do that well in last week’s poll, and I think the “Spirit of Christmas Past” in this version was lame.
I have watched a number of versions of this story, so I wanted to see this rather well-known version. Perhaps, you might also wish to see it, if you are watching various versions of “A Christmas Carol”.
A Christmas Carol (1999)
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
For all you people offended “Baby It’s Cold Outside”, here is something for you.
Baby, Just Go Outside
By The Holderness Family
ART OF THE WEEK
Zoos all over the country are generating some additional much-needed revenue, while also providing a unique Christmas experience. We again went to the Christmas Light Show at the Detroit Zoo with some friends.
Christmas Lights At The Zoo
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
This week I chose one of the greatest managers of all time. One that I tried to emulate myself, but never came close.
Mr. Fezziwig
Here is an exchange one of Mr. Fezziwig’s employees had to say about him in an exchange with a spirit at a Christmas Work Party. I wish every employee could speak this way about their manager, but unfortunately many can’t.
Spirit, “A small matter to make these silly folks so full of gratitude.”
“Small!” echoed Scrooge.
Spirit replies, “Why! Is it not? He has spent but a few pounds of your mortal money: three or four, perhaps. Is that so much that he deserves this praise?”
Scrooge, in defense of Mr. Fezziwig, “It isn’t that, Spirit. He has the power to render us happy or unhappy; to make our service light of burdensome; a pleasure or a toil. Say that his power lies in words and looks; in things so slight and insignificant that it is impossible to add and count ‘em up: what then? The happiness he gives is quite as great as if it cost a fortune.”
Employees who feel valued and respected are happier. They provide better service. They’re more creative and more productive. They work harder, bounce back better and support one another more vigorously.
As a result, your products and services are delivered more enthusiastically. Problems are solved more quickly and the “vibe” your prospects get when considering a relationship with your company is better.
By setting high expectations, providing the resources to meet those expectations and celebrating great outcomes, you can make your company a place where everybody – employees, neighbors, suppliers, customers and prospects – are all happier. With “words and looks; in things so slight and insignificant that it is impossible to add and count ‘em up…”. You can can build a culture where “the happiness he is quite as great as if it cost a fortune.”
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
PHYSICAL TRAITS
You can’t argue with science..
CHARACTER TRAITS
This is always a good question to ask, but especially this time of the year when many are making their New Year’s Resolutions.
SOCIAL TRAITS
More and more people are trying to eat healthy, but some do seem to carry a good habit to extremes.
LEARNING TRAITS
MISCELLANEOUS
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.
Please scroll down to the “Music of the Week” section for this week’s topic – “Baby It’s Cold Outside”
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
How do you find Christmas & New Years Holidays?
Same as any other time of the year 57.14% (8 votes)
Stressful 35.71% (5 votes)
I use Goggle Maps to find the Christmas and New Years holidays 7.14% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Regarding the movie, “Roman Holiday”
I’ve seen the movie and I enjoyed the movie 86.67% (13 votes)
I haven’t seen the movie and I don’t want to see it. 6.67% (1 votes)
I’ve seen the movie and I did not enjoy the movie 6.66% (1 votes)
I haven’t seen the movie but would like to 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 15
Do you believe your body talks to you, when you are harming it?
Yes, and when I ignore it; my body speaks louder 100% (13 votes)
No 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 13
Do you do anything to remember family and friends who have passed on?
Visit or decorate graves of family members 38.89% (7 votes)
No 22.22% (4 votes)
Once in a while 22.22% (4 votes)
Visit or decorate graves of friends 16.67% (3 votes)
Total Votes: 18
Ladies, do you think your husband could be better?
A little 44.44% (4 votes)
No, perfect as he is 33.33% (3 votes)
A lot 22.22% (2 votes)
Total Votes: 9
Have you ever not done something and seen other people less qualified than you do that same thing?
Yes 75% (9 votes)
No 25% (3 votes)
Total Votes: 12
The majority of people you have contact with are:
Assertive 57.14% (8 votes)
Passive 42.86% (6 votes)
Aggressive 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 14
The majority of drivers are:
Assertive 50% (6 votes)
Aggressive 41.67% (5 votes)
Passive 8.33% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 12
BOOK OF THE WEEK
MOVIE OF THE WEEK
There are many excellent film versions of this movie; however, this is one of my favorites.
A Christmas Carol (1984)
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
Things need to be taken into context. I saw the original 1949 movie version of this song and by today’s sensitivities, I was uncomfortable watching it. But in 1949 the film was classified as a musical comedy.
I have heard it said may times that we see the world not as it is, but as we are. I suspect the problem isn’t the song itself, but how we view it.
Below is a modern-day interpretation of this song.
Baby It’s Cold Outside
By Tony Bennett & Lady Gaga
ART OF THE WEEK
The Creation of Adam
The Creation of Adam is a fresco painting by Michelangelo, which forms part of the Sistine Chapel’s ceiling, painted c. 1508–1512. It illustrates the Biblical creation narrative from the Book of Genesis in which God gives life to Adam, the first man. The fresco is part of a series of panels depicting episodes from Genesis.
The image of the near-touching hands of God and Adam has become iconic of humanity. The painting has been reproduced in countless imitations and parodies. Michelangelo’s Creation of Adam is one of the most replicated religious paintings of all time. (Source: Wikipedia)
I have been to the Sistine Chapel and I have seen this painting. However, I remember it looking much different. Perhaps, it has been touched up a bit since I’ve seen it; but here is how I remember this painting.
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
I chose Santa Claus as the extraordinary person of the week, frankly because I have no desire to receive a lump of coal from him on Christmas Eve.
Santa Claus
Santa Claus, also known as Saint Nicholas, Kris Kringle, Father Christmas, or simply Santa, is a legendary figure originating in Western Christian culture who is said to bring gifts to the homes of well-behaved (“good” or “nice”) children on Christmas Eve (24 December) and the early morning hours of Christmas Day (25 December).
The modern Santa Claus grew out of traditions surrounding the historical Saint Nicholas (a fourth-century Greek bishop and gift-giver), the British figure of Father Christmas and the Dutch figure of Sinterklaas (himself also based on Saint Nicholas). Some maintain Santa Claus also absorbed elements of the Germanic god Wodan, who was associated with the pagan midwinter event of Yule.
Santa Claus is generally depicted as a portly, jolly, white-bearded man—sometimes with spectacles—wearing a red coat with white fur collar and cuffs, white-fur-cuffed red trousers, a red hat with white fur and black leather belt and boots and who carries a bag full of gifts for children.
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
Have You Experienced This
You go into a restaurant bathroom.
There’s a sign on the mirror that says employees must wash hands.
Have you wasted hours waiting for somebody to come in and wash your hands for you.
You probably ended up washing your own hands.
Besides, if someone does come in and washes your hands, what kind of tip are you supposed to give them?
PHYSICAL TRAITS
Every Year
I’ve spent a lot of years in gyms and this happens every year.
CHARACTER TRAITS
Don’t let anything stand between you and your dreams, not even the laundry.
SOCIAL TRAITS
Most people feel they are just too busy to spend even a bit of time with individual family members, good friends and even pets. Besides, they tell themselves that there is always tomorrow, next week, next month or the usual next time. Well, there isn’t always a next time.
LEARNING TRAITS
One must know their limitations.
MISCELLANEOUS
I frequently recommend traveling, but no matter where one goes; there is no better places than these:
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.
Former President George H.W. Bush (L) and former first lady Barbara Bush
Mr. Bush, a Republican, was a transitional figure in the White House, where he served from 1989 to 1993, capping a career of more than 40 years in public service. A decorated Navy pilot who was shot down in the Pacific in 1944, he was the last of the World War II generation to occupy the Oval Office.
Mr. Bush was a skilled bureaucratic and diplomatic player who, as president, helped end four decades of Cold War and the threat of nuclear engagement with a nuanced handling of the collapse of the Soviet Union and the liberation of Eastern Europe.
Yet for all his success in the international arena, his presidency faltered as voters seemed to perceive him as detached from their everyday lives. In an election that turned on the economy, they [ ] chose a relatively little-known Democratic governor from Arkansas, Bill Clinton, a baby boomer, ushering in a generational shift in American leadership. (Source: NY Times)
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
What do you primarily see?
The Good 100% (15 votes)
The Bad 0% (0 votes)
The Ugly (Sorry I could not resist, it is Clint Eastwood’s Movie, “The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly) 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 15
Who was the best Sherlock Holmes?
Jermey Brett 38.46% (5 votes)
Robert Downey Jr. 23.08% (3 votes)
Basil Rathbone 23.08% (3 votes)
Benedict Cumberbatch 15.38% (2 votes)
Jonny Lee Miller 0% (0 votes)
Other 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 13
Do you plan to see “A Christmas Carol”?
No 46.67% (7 votes)
Yes, both the play and a movie 33.33% (5 votes)
Yes, a movie 13.33% (2 votes)
Yes, a play 6.67% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 15
Do you do any type of strength training on a regular basis?
No 42.86% (6 votes)
Yes 35.71% (5 votes)
No, but I plan to start 21.43% (3 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Regarding the above three Christmas rules of behavior, which do you agree with?
All three rules 53.85% (7 votes)
Only rule 1 & 2 46.15% (6 votes)
Only rule 1 0% (0 votes)
Only rule 2 0% (0 votes)
Only rule 3 0% (0 votes)
Only rule 1 & 3 0% (0 votes)
Only rule 2 & 3 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 13
Are you a procrastinator?
No 41.67% (5 votes)
Yes 33.33% (4 votes)
I’ll answer later 25% (3 votes)
Total Votes: 12
BOOK OF THE WEEK
The Christmas and New Years Holidays are a very hectic time for most, so perhaps this extremely easy to read book might help.
How To Be Calm
by Anna Barnes
With a bit of help, the methods of truly relaxing your mind and body, and letting go of stresses and strains, can be learned, practiced and perfected. Bursting with tips, centering statements and soothing activities, How to Be Calm will help you to feel more at ease in the world and better equipped to deal with the things that really matter. (Source: BarnesandNobles.com)
MOVIE OF THE WEEK
This movie was filmed in Italy and if you have ever been to Rome, you will enjoy seeing in the film many of the sites you saw in Rome.
Roman Holiday (1953)
A bored and sheltered princess escapes her guardians and falls in love with an American newsman in Rome. (Source: IMDB)
Critics Consensus: With Audrey Hepburn luminous in her American debut, Roman Holiday is as funny as it is beautiful, and sets the standard for the modern romantic comedy. (Source: Rotten Tomatoes)
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
Although I am a fan of Christopher Walken, Dean Martin does this song much better.
Walking in A Winter Wonderland
By Dean Martin
ART OF THE WEEK
Meadow Brook Hall is a work of art in and of itself; however, at this particular time, it is even more so as it is all decked out in Christmas trees and other Christmas decorations.
Meadow Brook Hall
Christmas Walk
Meadow Brook Hall is a Tudor revival style mansion located in Rochester Hills, Michigan. It was built between 1926 and 1929 by Matilda Dodge Wilson (the widow of auto pioneer John Francis Dodge) and her second husband, lumber broker Alfred G. Wilson. In 1957, the mansion and the surrounding property and buildings were donated to the State of Michigan in order to fund Michigan State University–Oakland, now known as Oakland University. I
Covering 88,000 square feet (8,200 m2) and with 110 rooms, the mansion is the fourth largest historic house museum in the United States. It was designed by William Kapp in a Tudor-revival style. The building features stonework and a plaster dining room ceiling created by Corrado Parducci. Much of the original artwork collected by the Wilsons is still found at Meadow Brook, as well as Tiffany glass. (Source: Wikipedia)
There was a Christmas tree in each room that I viewed. I took a couple of pictures of the trees.
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
Given the role that the story, “A Christmas Carol” plays in our society at this time of the year, I thought it was appropriate to again make Charles Dickens the extraordinary person of the week.
Charles Dickens
Charles John Huffam Dickens (7 February 1812 – 9 June 1870) was an English writer and social critic. He created some of the world’s best-known fictional characters and is regarded by many as the greatest novelist of the Victorian era.
His works enjoyed unprecedented popularity during his lifetime, and by the 20th century critics and scholars had recognised him as a literary genius. His novels and short stories are still widely read today.
His 1843 novella, A Christmas Carol, remains popular and continues to inspire adaptations in every artistic genre.
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
Some of you many be wondering when you should retire; perhaps, this will help you in making that decision.
PHYSICAL TRAITS
Illnesses
CHARACTER TRAITS
As I was decorating some graves last week, I was struck my the devotion of this family for their 18-year-old son, who died in 2015. Although it has been 3 years, look at how he is being remembered. The picture doesn’t do justice to the remembrance since you can’t see the solar lights or the marker below of their son in various stages of his life. I don’t know the family, I was just a visitor passing by, but the family’s devotion struck a chord with me.
Please check all that apply
SOCIAL TRAITS
Last week I provided a suggested for a gift for someone who has everything. This week I received an idea from Susan for you ladies out there looking for something to give to your husband.
LEARNING TRAITS
Sometimes, we are our own worse enemy
MISCELLANEOUS
To be passive is to let others decide for you.
To be aggressive is to decide for others.
To be assertive is to decide for yourself
Source: Edith Eva Eger
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.
As we wrap up Thanksgiving and begin the Christmas and New Years celebrations, it is a good time to reflect on the good things in our lives, rather than our problems.
Here is my favorite movie
I just love that film.
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
This Thanksgiving, are you absolutely going to avoid discussing politics or religion?
Yes 80.95% (17 votes)
No 19.05% (4 votes)
Total Votes: 21
Regarding the movie, “Alice Through the Looking Glass”
I haven’t seen it and I am not interested in seeing it 42.86% (6 votes)
I’ve seen it and thought it was good 28.57% (4 votes)
I haven’t seen it, but I want to see it 21.43% (3 votes)
I’ve seen it and didn’t like it 7.14% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Do you believe Lady Gaga is Captain Kirk’s daughter?
No 66.67% (10 votes)
Maybe 26.67% (4 votes)
Yes 6.66% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 15
No you believe everyone has something to be thankful for, regardless of their circumstances?
Yes 100% (17 votes)
No 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 17
How well do you let people who are important to you know that they are important to you?
About average 64.71% (11 votes)
Better than most 29.41% (5 votes)
I’m in my own little world 5.88% (1 votes)
Probably less than average 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 17
How well do people who are important to me, think I do about letting them know I think they are important to me?
Average 53.85% (7 votes)
Better than average 46.15% (6 votes)
Less than average 0% (0 votes)
They know I am often in my own little world 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 13
Do you know what animal Egyptians worshipped?
Yes, even before I saw the cartoon 75% (12 votes)
Yes, after seeing the cartoon 12.5% (2 votes)
No 12.5% (2 votes)
Total Votes: 16
Do you think “The Love of Your Life” is a positive message or a negative message?
Positive 75% (9 votes)
Negative 25% (3 votes)
Total Votes: 12
BOOK OF THE WEEK
I’ve listened to these old radio shows so many times that I know these stories so well, but I still found this book very entertaining and readable. If you like to read mysteries, I think you will like this book.
MOVIE OR PLAY OF THE WEEK
A nice way to start the Christmas Season is my seeing the play, “A Christmas Carol“. But if for one reason or another you can’t, then perhaps you will want to watch one of the various “A Christmas Carol” films. My favorite is the one starring George C. Scott. Or perhaps, you might like a more current version, such as Bill Murray’s “Scrooged”.
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
Sexual Healing
By Marvin Gaye
ART OF THE WEEK
Stonehenge
Stonehenge is a prehistoric monument in Wiltshire, England, 2 miles (3 km) west of Amesbury. It consists of a ring of standing stones, with each standing stone around 13 feet (4.0 m) high, 7 feet (2.1 m) wide and weighing around 25 tons. The stones are set within earthworks in the middle of the most dense complex of Neolithic and Bronze Age monuments in England, including several hundred burial mounds.
Archaeologists believe it was constructed from 3000 BC to 2000 BC. The surrounding circular earth bank and ditch, which constitute the earliest phase of the monument, have been dated to about 3100 BC. Radiocarbon dating suggests that the first bluestones were raised between 2400 and 2200 BC, although they may have been at the site as early as 3000 BC.
Stonehenge could have been a burial ground from its earliest beginnings. Deposits containing human bone date from as early as 3000 BC, when the ditch and bank were first dug, and continued for at least another five hundred years.
(Source: Wikipedia)
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
Worf
I know, I made Worf my Extraordinary Person of the Week in the past, but perhaps the following video will demonstrate why I think Worf is so extraordinary.
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
PHYSICAL TRAITS
Why Strength Training?
It’s not just to get big muscles and look buff. Your bones will get stronger, too. And it can help your balance and coordination, which means you’re less likely to fall and hurt yourself. More muscle also means you burn more calories when you’re doing nothing at all, which can help keep off extra pounds. You’ll appreciate these benefits as you get older and start to lose muscle mass. (Source: WebMD)
CHARACTER TRAITS
Now that Christmas will soon be upon us, it is probably a good idea to establish a few rules.
SOCIAL TRAITS
Looking for a gift for someone who has everything, perhaps this will help.
LEARNING TRAITS
MISCELLANEOUS
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.
Keep Your Thanksgiving Happy By Avoiding This Receipt for Disaster
LAST WEEK’S POLLS
Do you believe the Bladensburg Veterans Memorial is inappropriate and should be removed?
No and I never severed in the military 72.22% (13 votes)
Yes and I never severed in the military 16.67% (3 votes)
No and I am a veteran 11.11% (2 votes)
Yes and I am a veteran 0% (0 votes)
Total Votes: 18
Regarding the movie, Apocalypse Now”
I’ve seen it and thought it was good 61.54% (8 votes)
I’ve seen it and didn’t like the movie 15.38% (2 votes)
I haven’t seen the movie, but would like to 15.38% (2 votes)
I’m not interested in seeing this movie 7.69% (1 votes)
Total Votes: 13
Do you believe abolishing the draft in the USA was just a way for the better off part of society to protect their children?
No 40% (6 votes)
Yes 33.33% (5 votes)
Maybe 26.67% (4 votes)
Total Votes: 15
Do you think the smell my finger joke was funny?
Yes 50% (7 votes)
No 50% (7 votes)
Total Votes: 14
Any chance the results of the WPC World Competition has inspired you to work on your level of fitness?
Yes 60% (6 votes)
No 40% (4 votes)
Total Votes: 10
Do you recognize any of the people in the “Homeland Security” photo?
No 57.14% (8 votes)
Yes 42.86% (6 votes)
Total Votes: 14
BOOK OF THE WEEK
MOVIE OF THE WEEK
Sacha Baron Cohen as the character “Time”, didn’t get much of a billing in this movie; but in my opinion, he made the movie. And Mia Wasikowska turned in a fine performance as Alice.
Alice Through the Looking Glass (2016)
MUSIC OF THE WEEK
Bad Romance
By Lady Gaga
ART OF THE WEEK
What an experience to see these fantastic Art Deco Hotels
along Ocean Drive, in South Beach, FL
Art Deco Hotels in South Beach, FL.
And staying at my favorite hotel there
The Beacon
I’ve probably stayed in more hotels than most people, other than those who travel for a living (which I also once did for a while) and I can honestly say I have never experienced a more caring staff than at the Beacon. They probably didn’t miss me the following week after I was gone, but they made me feel as if they would miss me.
EXTRAORDINARY PERSON OF THE WEEK
Geronimo
From right to left, Apache leader Geronimo, Yanozha (Geronimo’s’ brother-in-law), Chappo (Geronimo’s son by his second wife), and Fun (Yanozha’s half-brother) in 1886. Taken by C. S. Fly.
Geronimo (June 16, 1829 – February 17, 1909) was a prominent leader and medicine man from the Bedonkohe band of the Apache tribe. From 1850 to 1886 Geronimo carried out numerous raids as well as resistance to US and Mexican military campaigns in northern Mexico and in the southwestern American territories of New Mexico and Arizona. Geronimo’s raids and related combat actions were a part of the prolonged period of the Apache–United States conflict, which started with American settlement in Apache lands following the end of the war with Mexico in 1848.
At any one time, about 30 to 50 Apaches would be following him. However, since he was a superb leader in raiding and warfare he frequently led large numbers of men and women beyond his own following.
During Geronimo’s final period of conflict from 1876 to 1886 he “surrendered” three times and accepted life on the Apache reservations in Arizona. Reservation life was confining to the free-moving Apache people, and they resented restrictions on their customary way of life.
In 1886, after an intense pursuit in Northern Mexico by U.S. forces that followed Geronimo’s third 1885 reservation “breakout”, Geronimo surrendered for the last time to Lt. Charles Bare Gatewood, an Apache-speaking West Point graduate who had earned Geronimo’s respect a few years before.
Geronimo was later transferred to General Nelson Miles at Skeleton Canyon, just north of the Mexican/American boundary. Miles treated Geronimo as a prisoner of war and acted promptly to remove Geronimo first to Fort Bowie, then to the railroad at Bowie Station, Arizona where he and 27 other Apaches were sent off to join the rest of the Chiricahua tribe which had been previously exiled to Florida.
In his old age, Geronimo became a celebrity. He appeared at fairs, including the 1904 World’s Fair in St. Louis, where he reportedly rode a ferris wheel and sold souvenirs and photographs of himself. However, he was not allowed to return to the land of his birth. He died at the Fort Sill hospital in 1909. He was still a prisoner of war. He is buried at the Fort Sill Indian Agency Cemetery surrounded by the graves of relatives and other Apache prisoners of war.
THIS WEEK’S JOKE
PHYSICAL TRAITS
CHARACTER TRAITS
SOCIAL TRAITS
I’m familiar with the philosophy, “To each according to their needs, from each according to their abilities”, and there is much to be said for that.
LEARNING TRAITS
MISCELLANEOUS
BOOK
Warning: This book will not change your life, only you can do that.